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Sunday, April 29, 2012

Ogden Youth Commits Suicide

I am so sad and angry this morning to learn of the suicide of a beautiful young man (pic above and on the right in the second pic) from the Ogden, Utah area. His name was Jack Reese. I am deeply saddened that he felt it necessary to take his life. I am very angry at the Utah culture that does not stand up and do more to prevent these tragedies. There was no public acknowledgement by either his family or his community that he was gay. His obituary droned on (in typical Mormon fashion) about all his relatives left behind but said nothing about suicide, being bullied, or being gay. Why are we embarrassed about our gay youth?  We should be encouraging them to live not to lock themselves up in a closet and die. If Jack's boyfriend had not spoken up, this likely would have been completely ignored by the community. Below is a press release from the OUTreach Resource Center in Ogden about a response planned for next Tuesday (May 1st). I plan to attend. Please join me, if you can.

Press Release Community Response

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Community Responds to Latest Gay Teen Suicide
 Underscores Urgent Need for Education, Safe Schools & Family Support
Media Contact: Marian Edmonds,  medmonds@ogdenoutreach.org  801-686-4528
(April 26, 2012, Ogden, Utah) On Monday, April 23, 18-year-old Alex Smith spoke on a community panel at a screening of “Bullied,” telling the packed room about the bullying his boyfriend, Jack, experienced at school.  What no one in the room yet knew, including Alex, was that Jack had already taken his own life.
The death of Jack Reese is the latest known suicide of a gay teen in Northern Utah.  One official says, off the record: “It happens here about once a week,” but then quickly adds, “but officially, you know, it doesn’t happen here.”
OUTreach is hosting a community response: “A Community Stands up - Northern Utah Addresses LGBT Bullying and Suicide.” It will take place May 1st, 6:30 pm at the Ogden Amphitheater, 343 E 25th ST, Ogden, UT.  The purpose of the event is for the community to stand in solidarity with (lesbian, gay, bisexual and transgender) LGBT youth, to speak out and express grief and outrage at yet another loss of life in Northern Utah and to witness for the need for immediate change in schools, churches and society.  Until ALL youth are loved and accepted in their homes, able to attend school without fear of bullying, and know that their lives are worth living, this community will continue to demand change. 
Numerous community leaders, educators, parents and youth will speak out for acceptance and love for LGBT youth, including active members of the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints. At the request of Alex Smith, a candlelight vigil in memory of Jack Reese will be held at the conclusion of the event.
OUTreach Executive Director Marian Edmonds notes:  “The youth I work with all know either a victim of bullying, the loss of a friend to suicide, and most often, both.  These youth are bright, creative, and loving, yet too often face daily abuse from rejecting families, bullies at school and the loss of their church family.  It is time for local schools to incorporate proven techniques for eliminating bullying and homophobia, for churches to preach love and acceptance, and for parents and families to love and accept their children.  Each loss of life is a loss for all of us, and it must stop now.”
Edmonds underscored the need for accurate education and guidance for ethnically and religiously diverse families and cited the work of the Family Acceptance Project (FAP) at SF State University – a research-based education, support and policy initiative that helps ethnically and religiously diverse families – including Latter-day Saint families – support their LGBT children in families, schools and faith communities to prevent suicide, substance abuse, HIV, homelessness, school victimization and family disruption. FAP uses a culturally grounded approach that strengthens families and promotes their LGBT children’s well-being. FAP’s family education materials are available online in 3 languages at:  http://familyproject.sfsu.edu/publications
Or for more information, contact OUTreach at 801-686-4528, medmonds@ogdenoutreach.org

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